I received a very interesting and thought-provoking email from a medical doctor today. It sparked some excellent conversation in the NoPeanuts household.
(Note: the original text has been modified as I included portions of the email from the doctor that he subsequently felt I should not have posted. I have removed the doctor's name and portions of the text at his request.)
I had emailed the 'Doctor' to discuss the increasing prevalence of peanut allergy. He responded by questioning whether I should be blogging at all and I wanted to use his point of view to open a discussion on this site.
Doctor:
Peanut allergy is the same as seafood allergy or milk allergy or an allergy to any food. ... Why put your daughter in a separate category, different from other children? I personally think it's bad, especially for your daughter. Nobody is doing it for other food allergies!
NoPeanuts:
This blog focuses on the journey that begins when any parent is blindsided by the discovery of an anaphylactic food allergy. I chose peanuts because that appears to have been the catalyst that brought us into the food allergy community. Before this happened, I was admittedly unaware and somewhat unconcerned. We may find out at the end of the month that our daughter is not even allergic to peanuts, but that would not lead to a name change of this site.
The underlying allergen, in this case peanuts, is actually irrelevant. 'NoPeanuts' is a symbol for any allergy that requires ongoing care and management. In the interest of full disclosure our daughter also appears to be anaphylactic to egg whites and has a strong contact allergy to dog saliva.
I contend that this is not bad for us or for our daughter. I am writing in the context of 'our reality' and that appears to first and foremost be peanut. I am not sure it is a fair characterization that by focusing on 'our reality' and 'our story' that I would be doing a disservice to other parents by not discussing all food allergies.
That being said, I will try to be as balanced as possible in my discussion of food allergies in general while staying true to the mission of chronicling our journey.
Doctor:
There are already good help organisations dealing with food allergies ... : Anaphylaxis Canada, the Canadian Allergy and Asthma Information, the Calgary Allergy Network, The Food allergy and anaphylaxis Network ... to name just a few. Your blog is not going to accomplish anymore than what's already there.
NoPeanuts:
I understand your point here but I have no illusions of grandeur that would lead me to think that I can replace or usurp these organizations. A blog is just the new 'community chat group'. Instead of engaging in the Peanut Allergy Cloud I could choose to sit in the basement of a parish hall and discuss our child's allergy with other parents. But don't you see that this is actually a higher risk proposition? I would have a smaller sample to draw from and would thus be at a greater risk of getting bad advice.
I urge you to think of the "Wisdom of Crowds" principle - global is, frankly, better. I am simply choosing to engage in an online global discussion group where I am somewhat of a moderator. I also intend to volunteer with one of the organizations above and I am in the process of researching that. I would urge people that do find this blog useful to post comments (and conversely those that agree with the Doctor should post as well).
Doctor:
You, as a parent, are reacting like many others and starting another 'help' organization. Is the same thing happening with parents of children allergic to other foods? I think there are already too many parents of peanut allergic children who have either started a personal site (or) written books on the subject, unfortunately not without some errors or exagerations ... Re-inventing the wheel? Another form of sensationalizing?
NoPeanuts:
I concur that it would be irresponsible to write medical books purporting to be an expert, etc. but what's wrong with another 'help organization'? what's wrong with greater awareness? How is it a bad thing for parents to get involved and pro-actively manage their child's allergy? Is it wrong for Nadine O'Reilly to write a book for children that makes them aware of allergies? I say 'no'. Is it wrong for parents to start blogs and launch products that alert people to a child's food allergies? I say 'no'. There is absolutely nothing wrong with engaging people in a healthy and responsible discussion. Nothing on this site intends to be sensational. That being said, some aspects of a severe peanut allergy are obviously sensational so I am not sure how you avoid that when writing about it.
Doctor:
I don't intend to offend you and others reacting the same way, but I cannot see what you are doing as anything positive, other than just making a mountain out of a mole hill.
NoPeanuts:
I am not offended in the least. This prompted a great discussion in our home and you have opened my mind to the fact that I should be as balanced as possible, while staying true to the purpose of this blog which is to chronicle our journey. To that end I augmented my PeanutsNews feed on the home page with a Food Allergy news feed. I will also consider all allergies in our journey, part by default since our daughter has multiple allergies but also as a result of the similarities across all anaphylactic food allergies.
Again, I thank you for taking the time to engage in this discussion.